I've learnt a lot of things over the past few months. A-lot. God, things I couldn't even write down.

But the main lesson I've learnt is the complete difference between how men and women handle or deal with situations.
And I've come to the conclusion that most women feel things a whole lot deeper than men.
 I dunno, that's just what I've witnessed.

 (Maybe i'm just associating with the wrong type of men...maybe or definitely.)

I can't even begin to understand how men find it so easy to be a certain way, without any feelings or urges pushing through and getting in the way.

How is it that some men can just forget about the feelings, and just do it?
 

God, as a woman all i do is feel things! So intensely it drives me insane.
 My emotions are literally uncontrollable, I can't just push them aside and pretend they don't exist, and i can't stop myself from feeling anything because it just happens without any way to stop it.
But men just seem to have this switch that they can turn off so they don't have to feel anything. They're just very logical about their actions and don't seem to think or feel with their heart.

 Maybe that sounds a bit dramatic or cliché but it's true to me.

It's not just from situations that have happened to me...it's what I've seen from friends and family. How males are always in charge of a situation, and women end up being the victim of their own feelings, and are made to feel weak or pathetic or OTT.
Okay...maybe I am a bit weak and pathetic and OTT, but I'm kind of proud of that because I am proud to admit that I feel things!
Very deeply and powerfully. And maybe that makes me go a bit insane sometimes..
but I'd rather feel a whole bunch of shitty feelings than nothing at all.

I just wish that men were the same! I wish situations weren't one sided.
 I wish I could talk to people about these things too!

But like I said...maybe I'm just socializing with the wrong kind of men.

Sounds about right.

This whole blog post sounds like i'm just talking to myself..but I know what I mean!
Do you?

I've had quite a bit of experience with the dreaded 'psycho ex-girlfriend' and I still to this second do not get it. I decided to take a bash at ranting about this topic because it seems to be effecting quite a few people I know.

Ex's are obviously ex's for a reason. Whether it was a mutual decision, they broke it off with you, or you decided to move on with your life and break it off yourself. Why ever and whenever it happened, there was most definitely a reason behind it. After all, we don't just break up with people we care about for no reason right?Now..at what point after this relationship do some girls decide to be a total bitch to their ex? I don't really understand this fascination with an ex's life. My ex boyfriend and I are on great terms despite everything we went through together. I decided to end the relationship due to it just not working any more, and after a few weeks of childish bitterness towards each other (because the initial break up is never nice) we decided to suck it up and move on. Because no good can come from dwelling on the past. It seems that me and my ex don't really have anything to do with each other anymore, but if we see eachother we're civil, and we're both extremely happy for eachother with our new partners.However some girls choose to not take this mature route of growing up and moving on..No, it seems some people enjoy still trying to involve themselves in their ex's life. One way or another. Whether it is to sabotage their current relationship, or just make their life a living hell - they try their best to work their way back in.

I just do not understand this. Why, if you know you and this person are no longer compatible, and this person is now in a relationship with someone new (and can i add are extremely happy) do you insist on involving yourself?The first reason that springs to mind is an obvious one. Jealousy.

I understand that you may be jealous of your ex in a new relationship. C'mon we've all been there when it drives you crazy to see this person you spent so much of your time with doing the exact same thing with another person. Checking their facebook wall and/or tweets (admit it, you've done it!) and anytime you see these two together it makes your heart sink into your stomach. I know how this feels ladies, and I know it is a horrible thing. However!
 I'm sorry but at some point you have to suck it up and move on with your life.

You dwelling about your ex's fantastic new relationship is just putting you down, and however much you might try to cover this up..("Wooo i love being single, would hate to be with my ex again what was i thinking?" "Eurgh I'm so glad i have something better to talk about than my boyfriend...") commenting on people's love live's like that is just making your insecurity shine brighter than ever. I don't get why you'd want to broadcast this to people.

It can be hard moving on with your life, especially when you've spent so much time with this person. Maybe they were your first love? I get that it's hard to forget those feelings because I've been in this exact position. But at what point do you say to yourself "move on with your life."? As soon as possible I think, before you start turning into that dreaded psycho ex girlfriend.